How to deal with a breakup when you're going through a tough time. You may miss your loved ones but this will be alright.
Here's how to help your friend to get healed after a breakup.
- When we undergo heartbreak, our body is close to that of an alcoholic, who is going through detox, according to experts. So, first express all the anger, disappointment, dissatisfaction, and all the bad feelings out there.
- Then you have to make her husband leave altogether. Throw out all of the person's related things like tickets, presents, videos, emails, etc. Staying attached to issues linked to your ex will stop you from healing from the divorce and will inhibit your personal development, psychologists claim.
- Your friend may try to talk to her ex but don't let her do that. Encourage her to not let go. Speak to anything, but not her ex.
- When we are safe emotionally, it's easy to keep linked to our families. Do not get angry about this shift if you think your friend is disrespectful, indifferent, hostile of you. Your buddy is going through a situation that is incredibly fragile.
- Helping her rebound from the trauma doesn't necessarily mean you need to give her sound advice. You just got to be a decent listener, then. Your friend now wants someone to listen closely to her. And don't get distracted by this moment to get your buddy back to the state before.
- Make her ex the villain, don't victimize your mate. That would only make her emotional illness worse.
- Let them know also that separation does not equal loss. It's a natural occurrence that happens to most of us but it doesn't mean that we've struggled in life.
- Encourage them to take some time alone to do things they want to do. This will help them fight the helplessness.
Hope this will help your friend to get over it...
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